goodgirl, you will find on this board quite a few of us who still have to see him at work every day. I'm one of them, and I SO agree with you that I'm better off when he's not in the office. The first few months were awful, because we were only a few metres apart in the office... then I got lucky because he got transferred to an overseas office, and I feel like i've healed so much faster since he left. Because of work, we still keep in touch, but I know how painful it is to still be in contact with someone when you know it's over. You're lucky you haven't consummated it... neither did my xOM and me, although we went pretty far and there are times when the bad girl in me wishes so hard that we went all the way (i'm an idiot). Do you get that feeling too?
I keep telling myself that if we had had sex, the heartache would be worse.
Good for you for changing boards, that's a first and very important step.
I keep telling myself that if we had had sex, the heartache would be worse.
Good for you for changing boards, that's a first and very important step.
Hugs to you.