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please help! need advice
| Fri, 01-02-2004 - 1:44pm |
i wrote in a couple days ago about my situation. i want to thank you guys for your feedback, but i am still unsure of my decision. on new year's eve the problem arose again. my boyfriend and i , with a few friends were having a get together for the new year. my other friend called and had words with my boyfriend. to make a long story short the police arrived and i had to make a decision on who should leave and i chose my boyfriend! i spent the new year with the other man and he told me he is truely in love with me also, that he told his girlfriend he was going to leave her and since she also has 3 children (which none are his) he needs time so he can break away with a clean slate. he knows he has no right to ask me to wait for him and continue to be second but the funny thing is i want to wait .i am sooo in love with this guy i can't help it ! i am thinking of him all day & all night ! i know my boyfriend is the best choice for my children since he is their father and he will provide for my family. he is just so verbally abusive to me about this whole situation which is actually making me not want to be with him even more . i am just sick with hurt! i feel i will never be happy with myself if i let this other man go ! i believe it is true love -- what do you think?

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