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please help! need advice?
| Mon, 01-05-2004 - 9:32am |
i wrote in a couple days ago explaining the situation.... well now everything is up in the air ! there a few things i left out of the equation... my boyfriend now is a former drug addict . he was physically abusive and still is since he has hit me once on xmas eve and one on xmas day. he still is actively verbally abusive . i do love him but i dont know if he is the best thing for me and my 3 children. i had an affair while he was in prison for 8 months , fell in love but this om has a girlfriend. now last night the om came to my door and told my best friend that he is leaving his girlfriend so he can be with me and he wants me to make a decision. i am so scared!!! i am totally confused because as everyone has heard once in an abusive relationship , emotionally it is hard to walk away. i am getting what i dreamed about , this om is leaving his current girlfriend to be with me! my best friend does not get along with this om but she did feel he was sincere , and so do i . what should i do?? i would really appreciate a little feedback. thanks guys.

Take time for yourself and don't "jump" right into a new relationship. An A is fantasy, so expect the relationship to change when it's out in the open.
I sure wouldn't want to be married to the real XMM, although the fantasy one was really great.
Good luck to you.
Get out of your present relationship as quickly as you can.
I agree with chris, if your OM really cares for you, he will step back, wait till you're ready. Leave him out of this for now.