here it goes- i am going to need help

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Registered: 11-12-2003
here it goes- i am going to need help
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Wed, 01-07-2004 - 12:33pm
I'm doing it- I'm ending it with OM- he is single, i am not. I am in love with him but don't want to lose my husband this way. I want to stop and make sure that my marriage is either salvagable or not before i leave. Not because of another man. So, i am doing NC. Can i do it without telling him why or how? Om and i have a pretty intense and emotional relationship. If i wasn't married, it would be like breaking off a serious relationship. Can i do that without any explanation? I just don't want to hurt him. If the timing was different, things would be different. but they're not.

so, his birthday is next week and i don't want to do this around then. Is there ever a good time to end a relationship? I was thinking of mailing a letter to him...maybe that will help.

How did i end up here hurting everyone i truly care about?

ughhhhh

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 12:54pm

Chrissy, there is only one 'good' time to break off a relationship!