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| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 11:15pm |
This is my first time posting to this board. I haven't been on ivillage in almost a year, and I'm so happy I found this discussion. Trying to catch up with the lingo though. I think I'm the OW, I know I'm the other woman. I met my MM when we were both married over 2 years ago, we had one, drunken night of talking and kissing and the physical contact ended that night, but we emailed for a good two months following that night. Because of other reasons, my husband and I divorced 5 months ago. And I pushed to rekindle those feelings with MM, and he didn't refuse. For 4 months now, we've become intimately close, chatting for hours online and finding stolen moments to be with one another, always suggesting we should end this until he figures out what he's going to do. We even made resolutions to try to keep space between us. But the attraction is so strong. I went to visit him where he worked this last Tuesday night, I shouldn't have, but I wanted to see him. Luckily, he works alone, and customers were infrequent, we were kissing in the store room, when the bell announced someone had walked in, it was his MIL. She saw my car, but no one in the shop, where was the customer? He told her I was using the bathroom. She left, I came out, she was waiting in her car for me to leave, and I left. She called him and said whatever was going on should not go further. He's freaked out that she will tell her daughter, but that is all I know. The emails have been very impersonal and short, and we spoke briefly yesterday afternoon. He said that whole incident was a wake-up call and left it at that. Now I don't know what to do. The other tangent in this mess: we work for the same company and see each other practically everyday. I know NC is the best, and I'm hoping to leave soon for 6+ weeks to give us some real space, but it's so damn hard!!! The last time we tried to break it off, I cried all night and didn't want to go to work the next day. He knows I love him, and he's..OMG..on line and just sent me a long email, we're ending it. Good bye for now.
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| Fri, 01-09-2004 - 4:15am |
I am hoping everything will work out for you and you will find the strength to stay away. From your description it sounds as if his W has caught him before and is up to his tricks.
