Cali, where are you??

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Registered: 11-20-2003
Cali, where are you??
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Fri, 01-09-2004 - 1:39am
Hey Cali,

I noticed you haven't posted in a long time....where are you girl? Is everything OK?? Please write soon and let us all know how you are doing. Thinking of you!

mpjcmom

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Fri, 01-09-2004 - 9:42am
thanks for asking about me. I was just about to poast a general post to everyone. I was going to ask about all my frined. Like you and others it seems like everyone on here is new.

Everything for me is going to crap real quick. Basically to make a long story short. It is my birthday today and it is now almost 7am my time. I have been on the computer since 11pm last night trying to get eveidence against XMM's W. Basically I went to work Monday night to get served with a TRO by my Lt and Sgt and to get my weapon taken away pending an IA investigation and the outcome of the TRO. I need two attorney's one for the IA and one for the TRO. I have one for the IA but the one for the TRO ahs to come out of my broke pocket. I have to come up with several thousand dollars in the next couple of days to get the paper work started. Thanks goodness I have a really good friend (she knows who she is that is helping )me. The court date is the 22nd. At which time I will have to see XMM and his wife who is doing all this. So I am stressing very bad again. Just when I started eating again. Right now my mom is here but she leaves Sunday. I need to find someone to go to court with me in the 22nd so I don't fall apart. Just talking withe the attorny Wed morning I was shaking so bad.

So I raed your post I am so sorry about everything. But it has to be good now that everything is in the open. How did your huband leave things? Is he willing to work on the marriage? Or do you even want that? I have been just so busy with my crap I haven't been very active on the board but check when I can. There are so many new people I would have to take a week to catch up. I still check when I can though so you can post me messages here or e-mail me diamon_dprincess@yahoo.com.

Good luck and thank you again for thinking of me.

Cali~

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Registered: 04-12-2003
Fri, 01-09-2004 - 10:18am
Cali,

My thoughts and prayers will be with you. I am so sorry to hear of what you are going through. You have been such a help to me and, if there is a God, I hope he is listening to my prayers.

Please keep us posted. I don't post as much as I was, but I read everyday.... and will look for updates from you....

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Registered: 11-20-2003
Fri, 01-09-2004 - 4:25pm
Wow Cali,

I am so sorry you are having to go thru all this. The more I read the posts here, the more convinced I am that it's almost always the woman who gets the short end of the stick in these A's! I will be praying that this all turns out OK for you in the end. Try to take care of yourself and stay strong. Keep in mind that you are NOT a bad person, and you were not in this affair alone....HE is equally responsible for everything that has happened!

I will E-mail you sometime soon with more info on my situation. My H is in Germany now, and I really don't know where things stand with him. To make matters more confusing, my XMM called me this morning, and we talked for almost 2 hours. So much for NC! I really don't know what is next for me. I am trying to stay focused on my kids and on being a good mom to them, since I am the only parent they have right now.

Hang in there girl, and keep us updated on you ~ Hugs, mpjcmom