Tell me Im doing the right thing

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2004
Tell me Im doing the right thing
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 3:48pm
I did it. I wrote the break up letter. I dont want give it to him. I told him I have strong feelings for him and I have to stop now because later it will be too late. I said my husband & children does not deserve what I am doing and has no idea what I did. I said he (MM) has been nothing but nice and the break up is all me. I ended it with I'll miss you Goodbye and told him I will talk to him about it if he wants. I am going to put it in his mailbox at work tomorrow(if I dont chicken out) This is so hard for me. I like him alot but I love my family. They need me 100%. I cant believe I am going to do this. I feel like an idiot for getting in this in the first place. Now I feel like I am doing something I dont want to do (Its the same way you feel when you have to put an animal asleeP)(no joke). Please pray that I have the will power to put it in his mailbox and let me know if you agree with what I am doing. I am really going to miss our friendship which happened prior to the relationship. What do I do when I see him after he gets the letter?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 4:07pm
i just responded to you. but not sure if it came to you or to my message board. like i said never done these message boards so obviously not very good at it. :)

dipss.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 4:23pm
You are doing the right thing!!! :) You know you are, deep down. Nothing good can come of the A if you continue. But -- don't give him the letter unless/until you intend to follow through completely, as hard as it will be!!! Keep reading and posting here! The experiences of everyone else here will help you be strong. They've helped me tremendously!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 4:38pm
So far I have all intention to give him this letter. I think after I give it to him it will be the end. I dont think he will try anything again. So I know once I give it to him.. Thats IT. How sad but I know in my heart it has to be done. Its all my fault for getting in this in the first place.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 6:14pm
HI Shop the letter is ok but the follow up talk idea is not, no follow up talk that will just open the door to falling back into this again.

Be polite but distant.

You bet will pray

BE STRONG

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