seeing OM with OW

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2004
seeing OM with OW
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 6:25am
It's been 1 week with NC. I do see him though with the kids sports. I thought I would die yesterday he asked my son to play on one of his leagues. I started to get nervice while driving. I was thinking is he going to talk to me, look at me. While I'm there I find out that he brought the other G there to the park. I could'nt even concentrate on what anyone was saying to me I was devistated. I called my friend rambled on about how much of a horrible person he is , thank god for her or I probably would have cried in front of everyone.

I know I wanted to break up with him. I just want to know how do I get over this part of hurting. I feel like I'm missing out on him. when in reallity I was not going to leave H for him. my heart is broken and he is going to prove that I miss out .

How do i deal with this. I can't bear to see him with OW

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2004
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 11:03am
Hugs to you; I don't have any advice because I know I'd have just as hard a time as you. I can handle my X being with his wife; don't think I could handle a new G.

I am just thinking that hopefully the worst is over for you; you got through seeing them together once, it should get easier. Maybe? :)

Hang in there!