Judgement day is coming....

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Judgement day is coming....
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Tue, 04-27-2004 - 11:06am
Hi All,

I havent posted here since early last week. I have coming here reading all the posts but truth be told I havent posted here because I have spoken w/ xMM. Yup. You heard right. We have spoken.

We have decided to try to remain friends. He doesnt think we can do it and I of course the eternal optimist feels that we can. When we are on the phone yesterday he said "we are talking and I am already undressing you in my mind, how do you think we can do this??". Ok, that may not have been the most platonic of statements but I think that we may be able to go back to our old ways of simply being friends.

Oh, I can hear the responses now. I was embarassed to post, knowing what would be coming my way.

Anyway, hope your all doing well, a couple of things...

Dharma: Your letter was simply amazing. It touched my soul. Can I hire you to write my "goodbye letter", would it be bad to plagerize that?? (just kidding!) ;)

Clarice: My heart goes to you when I read your posts. What if you and your H went away together to try to bring back some happiness into your marriage. A romantic warm getaway?? Was it always like that?

Mo: I hope you are feeling better. Your bicep loving man sure did a number on you calling you at 3:00am...and where the hek was your H during that time? Does he not hear your phone ring?

Katie: I just wanted to send you a big hug and say hello.

Peace and love to everyone!

xo!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2003
Tue, 04-27-2004 - 11:29am
(ok...this is my LAST POST today..I swear....lol...I'll never finish my paper if I can't quit my internet addiction)

dipss~

Sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do. Sometimes you have to try to go the friend route. It may work out, it may not. Only time will tell. DONT BE EMBARRASSED...for god's sake...we ALL understand here, and still flirt with the idea ourselves (well, some of us...well, ok, maybe JUST ME....LOL).

I went this route SEVERAL times and realized I just couldn't do it at this point because I fell in love. However, after some time (a LONG TIME) that could change....but I'm wiping out the fantasy mode of it. Its very challenging waters to tread. I found I couldn't go from feeling that I loved someone to feeling 'hey, we're just buds'...but that's just me.

As for my letter.....lol...sure plagerize all you want. I wrote that letter jacked up on coffee and nicotine while listening to Sarah McLaulcan (gosh I can never spell her name!)

Have a good day...keep us posted!

dharma