Attracted to another women????
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Attracted to another women????
| Sat, 07-24-2004 - 11:52pm |
What's wrong with me? Next month is my 10 yr anniv to my husband. We are Christians and believe that to be with someone of the same sex is immoral. I don't look down on people who are gay but I do believe it is wrong. Some may not agree but that's my beliefs. That's why I'm so very confused!!!! I've recently become attracted to another women at work and I'm sooooo confused. I can't sleep and I can't stop thinking of her. She hasn't said that she's gay but I'm 99% sure she is. She recently went through a big breakup with a friend she was living with and the friend was another women. We get along great and work very well together. She's made comments when we've been goofing off and in the last week she's said "I love you" at least 3 times. She could mean of course in the friend way. Today she said she dreamed of me last night. That's weird??? I never got to talk to her about this dream because we were too busy but she did say that in her dream I cheated on my hubby. !!!! I've been praying that these feelings for her leave me even though I'd still like to be friends with her. She's a neat person but I know it's morally wrong. So why can't I get her out of my mind?? My poor husband. I already feel like I've betrayed him but I can't bring myself to tell him of my crush. Bad enough that I have feelings for someone else much less another woman. What's wrong with me!!???!! Please help! At least pray for me to get over these feelings.

You may not like this suggestion but I would strongly suggest that you do not hid this problem from your husband or pastor, if you try to keep this in the dark you may very well find that you will not be able to deal with it alone and it may get out of control.
Getting problem out of the shadows so that you can get help VERY IMPORTANT.
Cool person or not you need to go NO CONTACT with this person stop all but the most esential contact with her , if possible get out of that office NOW, up to this point nothing has happened and if you stop it now it will be vastly easier to deal with then if you act on this influence.
I have heard a very good preached speak on this subject and would be willing to share that info with but I do not think this board to be the correct place to publish it.
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