Running from an A
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Running from an A
| Tue, 08-03-2004 - 4:10pm |
Back in early June I decided my A for 2 months wasn't a good thing. Basically I was having a lot of regret and the fact she screwed around with my head about with her relationship status just slowly killed the attraction. The last time I was with her, the sex wasn't even that good. After contimplating I decided to run away from the A literally. I could have just told her it was over, but I didn't. I blocked my instant messenger.
One of two things is going on with her after a month or so of that. She lost my cell phone number (We communicated primarly Instant message), she doesn't have my home number. I'm also unlisted. The other is she got the hint and she's moving on.
No email, no nothing. Believe me when I had a huge fight with the W I had every opportunity to be with her for most of the evening, and I didn't take it so that was a sign. W to this day doesn't know and I have no desire to tell her.
One of two things is going on with her after a month or so of that. She lost my cell phone number (We communicated primarly Instant message), she doesn't have my home number. I'm also unlisted. The other is she got the hint and she's moving on.
No email, no nothing. Believe me when I had a huge fight with the W I had every opportunity to be with her for most of the evening, and I didn't take it so that was a sign. W to this day doesn't know and I have no desire to tell her.
I haven't told anyone, so I'm confessing here on the board.
Has anyone else done this? Just one day up and ran from the A?

Best of luck
Well, I've only had the one. To be frank, I'd gladly eat live wasps before I'd ever do it again, but no, I've never run from an A.
I told him rather calmly & matter of factly that he was an immature, self-obsessed, manipulative wanker and I wished to have nothing further to do with him in this life or any other.
I agree with Free, it'd be kindest to all concerned to simply leave things be.
Wishing you strength & peace,
Posie