Happy Labor Day

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Happy Labor Day
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Mon, 09-06-2004 - 11:25am
I remember last year at this time I was still floundering in a sea of confusion, AND sulking over this holiday weekend because I was alone while MM was with family and friends. I would pine for him, and wonder if he was doing the same. But with deep introspection, I have learned this past year that the only *pining* going on was what I had imagined. Learning to let go of the "What wasn't" and embrace the "What IS" had to be the hardest lesson I've ever encountered.

Those of us who have worked so very hard to "Free" ourselves from muck should celebrate today by first saying, "I DID IT!" :) What a "Laborious" road we have traveled, and although the final destination may be well off into the future, the real excitement lies in our journey to get there...

I wish all of you a "Happy Labor Day", and be safe.

~True~

 

 

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 10:36pm
Happy labor day to you too. A year ago, I was having such feelings of " I just can't live without him in my life" and "I can't let go of this affair because it would mean loosing the man I loved". Boy what a difference a year makes!!!!!!!!! Oh and I want to tell you that the post you did on "Limbo Land" had pulled me thru some tough days. THANK YOU FOR THAT. I printed it and carry it in my purse for that moment when I felt like I wanted to break, or just couldn't go on without him anymore.

Thanks again

TCOM

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 8:25am
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Girl, thanks for telling me this, and I am so proud of you. Looks like we went thru hell at the same time....but here we are, proof, that the *strong* survive!

HIGH FIVE :)

~True~