Have you...?

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Registered: 08-29-2004
Have you...?
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Wed, 09-08-2004 - 10:38am
Have you had an affair and ended it successfully and moved on without your H ever catching on? I know it is possible, just wanted to hear other's story. TIA :)

~Crazy

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Registered: 04-26-2004
In reply to: crazyiknow
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 3:48pm
I have ended my A 2.5 months ago. W has not caught on. I do have to say, the guilt does get to me, but it would be worse if she did find out, so it's under lock and key.
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: crazyiknow
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 5:34pm
Crazy

Many affairs are not discovered, but that does not mean thew marriage relationship is not damaged by them, affairs have a lasting effect on them that have been involved in them.

After the thrills and excitment stop your body chemisrty returns to normal and a otherwise ok marriage can seem dull and boring making it easier to move on to the next affair looking to get that HIGH(yes like a junkie) back.

JMHO

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Registered: 07-12-2004
In reply to: crazyiknow
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 9:11pm
Crazy,

Yes and no. I've had 4 affairs. First one DH caught me due to sheer stupidity on my part (too embarrassed to explain here lol). The other three, I moved on with DH not having a clue. Just takes care and planning.

Susie M