Running into his W???

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Running into his W???
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Sat, 12-11-2004 - 7:18pm
Just a question that crossed my mind as I was Christmas shopping in the mall. What the hell do I do now if I happen to run into her somewhere? We used to be really good friends, but now she knows, and for good reason, hates my guts. I'm sure I'm not supposed to say hi to her. She'd likely spit in my face. But I don't want to cower to her either. If I keep my chin up and be confident will she feel like I'm trying to be arrogant and rub it in her face? Just don't know what would be "appropriate" for when (I'm sure ) it will happen. And even worse, what if he's with her? How could I just walk on by without saying a word to him? It wouldn't even seem natural. Oh God!!! Why didn't I think of this stuff before??? (Because he always told me WE WOULD BE TOGETHER, that's why!!!)Oh, and another thought, if my (or her) children are with us when we run into eachother, what happens when my kids want to give her a hug or vice versa, or when our kids want to say something to eachother. What a mess!! Can anyone give me their thoughts? Has this ever happened to anyone?
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Sat, 12-11-2004 - 8:41pm

Pal

I think if your taken by surprise survival instincts will kick in and your just going to want to get out of there quick.

I suggest body armor if you two shop in the same place.

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