I'm glad I posted...thanx

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2004
I'm glad I posted...thanx
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Fri, 12-17-2004 - 7:51pm

To everyone who posted a reply to me:

As I type this, I have tears in my eyes. It is hard to have a relationship end, but even harder when you cannot talk to anyone close to you about it because it is supposed to be a secret. For four years I snuck around, lied to friends and family, and most of all lied to myself to convince myself what I was doing was justified. I also gave up on guys I dated because I was in love with someone nobody else could know about but me.

Thank you all for sharing your experiences and giving me good advice. I know I can't take revenge or do anything stupid like that. It will not do any good, and it is unlike me. Thank you for making me realize that! At least I let what I have inside out a little.

take care:)

Adri

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2004
Fri, 12-17-2004 - 10:04pm

I am so sorry for the pain you are going through right now. While my situation is a bit different, the pain is the same. My thoughts are with you. ((HUGS))

Peace and happiness to you in the new year.