First Date

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Registered: 10-10-2004
First Date
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Wed, 12-22-2004 - 1:14pm

I went on a date!!! I got to be with someone positive who could stay out after 5:30 at night. We went Christmas shopping. He was so happy and positive even though just finishing up his own divorce it made me want to move forward to a happier place and *not look back* to all the pain and sadness of the ending of my A.

Today I had a vm from xMM who apologized for breaking NC but wanted to wish me a Merry Christmas and he said "I love you beyond comprehension of my being"

No-----his ACTIONS do not prove out those words. I have no intention of responding, it has been almost 100 days since I have seen him. Yes, I still think of him all day. Yes, I still *feel* like I love him. But I am not willing to GO THERE again. It is wrong and it is not me---and I don't get anything out of it anyway.

Survive

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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: survive4
Wed, 12-22-2004 - 2:01pm

Survive

Good luck with the new guy, enjoy an honest open above board relationship with a man that had the integrity to finish one relationship before starting something new.

Even if NG is not "THE ONE", your at a great place to meet the one.

Peace and Joy

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