Rejection is Protection
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Rejection is Protection
| Sun, 03-07-2010 - 12:31am |
I read or heard somewhere that "rejection is protection", which makes sense to me, as the A wasn't meant to be and therefore protecting one from whatever it is in the relationship that was bad (all of it).
Whether you were rejected by xap or was the one that did the rejecting (NC), it doesn't really matter which way; just matters that you have protected yourself from any future pain.
Mish :)

Mish,
I missed responding to this last week--but interestingly enough, at church on Sunday this was said. I also heard it from my T. (:
Just simple words with big meaning. It is soooo hard to think of rejection as anything other than hurtful, but if we step back we can often see that it did mean saving us more pain. Especially with A's.
Thanks for sharing!
LL (: