Good Morning Board!!!!!! :)

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Registered: 10-01-2009
Good Morning Board!!!!!! :)
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Tue, 03-09-2010 - 11:17am

Hi Girls (and boys...?) lol

It is a rainy day here where I live, but it is sunshine in my heart today as I start another victorious NC day! I just wanted to spread a little of that sunshine over you all and wish each one of you a successful day. I'll be around the board today if anyone needs to talk.

Today, believe you are worth it. Because you are :)

Love,
Hazel

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Registered: 11-04-2009
Tue, 03-09-2010 - 11:48am

Hazel,


Thanks for the optimistic words. They are needed for us pre tweeners who struggle, yet making ground with the help of EAS'ers.


Its hard letting go of an A, re focusing on a M and healing all at the same time but coming here everday and seeing the support we have for each other has helped.


I too have had a more positive outlook lately. Noone can take advantage of me unless I let them and boy did I give Xmm a free pass. I let him take so much away from me, my strength, my independence, my sense of humor. Im getting all of that back little by little every day. Most importantly, I am getting my independence back to the point where I dont feel like I need to rely on someone else to validate me.


Im getting there.


GMLB

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Tue, 03-09-2010 - 12:40pm

Thank you for this wonderful greeting!

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 03-09-2010 - 7:15pm

Dear Hazel,

Thank you for the lovely welcome to the day (although it is now dark outside). I am saying good-bye to NC day 6. I feel that I have earned every single day. As we are co-workers/office-mates, it has taken every bit of strength I have to keep pushing ahead. I have made excellent strides, and I depend on the well-wishing messages, just as much as the painful ones, to keep me moving forward.

Thank you (-:

j.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Tue, 03-09-2010 - 7:52pm

Hazel,

Chica...I like! I like. it a lot!! Good stuff momma. I realize its late but you were a welcome home mini treat for me this evening....we need this to keep the juices flowin around here. Keep up the positivity and giving, it has so much power...Always nice to see one of us coming into the light....even if we occasionally let the dark side hit us up side our heads every once in a while....u r a magnificent work in process...

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 10-01-2009
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 2:10pm

Awwww, y'all are so sweet. :) Thank you! I'm glad I could make y'all smile today.

Luvin- thank you for your kind words :) I do feel like I am a work in progress, getting better every day! I am so grateful for this board and everyone who supported me along the way. I feel like I am finally, FINALLY, getting it right. And that, is an AWESOME feeling.

I wish I could go to each of the ones on this board who are in pain, and give them just a little of the awesome feeling that I have had the past few days- just a taste of what it feels like to finally be free. I failed so many times..... so many times..... but the freedom that comes from finally ending it is so refreshing.