what a flippin day

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what a flippin day
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 1:39pm
Ok need to vent.....I think I need to go back to T. woke up this morning to take my dad to what I thought was his 2nd to last radiation app. Mind u 2 weeks ago I confirmed this with Dr. I booked a trip to Fl to see my new grandson leaving Sunday. Today they tell me he needs to come next week on Monday for radiation. I am like what are you talking about? All they can say is sorry. Ok got in touch with my son who lives near me problem solved he will take him Mon. Come home from radiation, my dad lives with me. He tells me his cat is sick, I call the vets. They say sorry Dr not here please call someone else or bring him tom. Found another Vet. Take cat....He has blockage they keep him, will cost about $1000.00 if he lives. OMG the cat cannot die....My dad just went through hell loosing my mom who had alzthemiers. All this happened in six hrs. And then me trying to keep N/C with xap. This is one way to stay busy huh.... Is it 5 oclock somewhere? not here but dam I think I might get a glass of wine anyhow...Oh ya and as far as xap goes today I hate him..... don't even know why
just call me the rambler it seems thats all i do lately .
loveless

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 1:46pm
loveless, sorry you are going through so much right now. But that's real life isn't it? Sometimes the flood gates open and everything rushes through. Just breathe deep and take it one issue at a time. hugs
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Registered: 02-15-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 1:56pm
I agree thats all I can do.... I remember when everything just rolled off me....where did those days go? thank you....... I needed that hug
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 2:22pm

I am sending a hug your way too: and in doing so, know that I am getting hugged back (-:

I find the days of high emotions are the worst for trying to stay NC. These are the days I would love to connect with xAP - to share the highs and the lows ...

sending you (and your cat) strength

cheers,
j.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 3:07pm

Hang in there, honey. We are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for. You resolved one issue, and hopefully your father's cat will be okay too. Just keep your eye on that Fla. trip and seeing your new grandbaby. How exciting is that?


(((Hugs)))

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 10-21-2009
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 3:11pm

((Hugs))
Sometimes I feel ashamed being sooo miserable while going through my ending - when I see people struggling with real life problems. We have a girl at work who just got diagnosed with cancer - I'm sure she'd laugh at me for crying over break up with little MM. Sobering, isn't it?

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:20pm

Thinking of you Loveless.

Jane

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Thu, 03-11-2010 - 12:07pm

Hi Love,


You have an overwhelming amount of pressure and responsibility hitting you at once. You and your father are in my prayers!


Hope you are able to get some much needed rest for not only your body but for your mind too on your upcoming vacation.


Hope the cat has some of its nine lives left and pulls through.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Thu, 03-11-2010 - 2:27pm

Hi All & thank you for your hughs, prayers and just for responding yesterday. OK cat going to be ok....after MUCH $$$$$$ but not my money LOL. Dad, My eldest son is going to help with dad's radiation on Monday. H was great yesterday with all my emotions...Hey ya know XAP called me last night about work, and I talked for 10 sec. and said I had to go would talk today. I never felt the desire to tell him anything about my day.....And of course I never called him back today. Cannot say he has not been on my mind, but I just kept busy.... Thanks you guys... I am so glad that I finally realized that everyone here has telling the truth about xaps......

this board should all be certified T's love u guys
loveless

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Registered: 11-19-2006
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 2:32am

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loveless,

Not wanting to talk to xap about your day is a HUGE step! As I see it, it's the beginning of indifference, and although many emotions and trying times ahead to get through just the A issues, not to mention all your other far more important ones, the days are looking brighter.

Sending many blessings and hugs your way..

Mish

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 5:21am
I know it was a huge step for me......And you know what I really never thought of him after the call that night. Had to many real issues going on.
UPDATE: cat is fine, so dad is good. found a good friend to help my dad when I am away and my H is working....I am ready for FL
Life is ok today.......Thankyou for the hugs
loveless

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