Sick/Twisted - MAJOR vent!

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Registered: 01-16-2010
Sick/Twisted - MAJOR vent!
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 11:53pm

Warning...major vent with cyber language ahead...but I had to share this...

How sick and twisted is this?!?!

So after having to endure overhearing coworkers discuss my xAP hitting on everything-with-a-pulse last night at a happy hour function...he talks about how all his old college buddies are coming into town tonight for a (yes...he ACTUALLY called it this) "sausage-fest" this weekend...

And he makes his way over to my cube to ask me if he can borrow some sheets for this weekend!!!!!

&*()*&)(*^&* WTF?!?!? What am I? Motel 6?? Would you like some towels and soap with that? How 'bout some condoms to go with??

Better yet...how about some bleach...or some lighter fluid and some matches???!

Disgusting. Wow. He must really think a lot of me, huh. I think I just threw up in my mouth.

What a low-life. And I was pining for this guy a few days ago? Words cannot describe the filthy, dirty, disgusted, slimy feeling I have after today.

Just had to tell you all.

Misty

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Thu, 03-11-2010 - 8:33am

Yep,

you called it, what a low life...he is a teenager that never grew up, he is really trying to get to you too. He is pushing your buttons. Yes, he being super petty. Although he gets to you and who wouldn' he get to at this point in your situation. Try not to let him see that it gets to you. Otherwise, he will continue with the pettiness....
Sorry that you are going thru this. Try to stick to STRICT LC, avoid putting yourself in the midst of convos about him. Even if it means you miss a happy hour....there are always happy hours. Avoid any aspect of him. The less you know about him, the better.

This stuff hurts but gives you perspective on who he really is....and what you really meant. Use it to motivate you to stay away. Next time, you remotely pine over him, think of how he made you feel in that office and how he tried to humiliate and belittle you. Use it as motivation.

Besos y Brazos

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Thu, 03-11-2010 - 9:26am
Testosterone working at it's finest huh? Geez, he is something else. What I see is a man trying to prove himself. He wants you to know he's hot stuff and he is going to have a "fun" weekend with his buddies. Nothing like that will probably happen (how old is he ?) but no matter, he wants to lay it on thick. He wants you to think about him having fun and you are not included in those plans. High school behavior for sure. Stay out of his line of fire - avoid him, he's trying to play games with your head.
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 03-11-2010 - 9:38am

Ew! They talk like that in your OFFICE?! Not a very professional environment, huh? Do you have HR? or a boss who is half-way decent? Can you talk to them about making some changes? I'd be crawling the walls if I had to work in that cesspool.

Good luck, Misty!
Dee

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Registered: 01-16-2010
Thu, 03-11-2010 - 11:42pm

Hi All:

Unfortunately, yes, Dee, I do hear this type of talk often in the workplace. I work in a very male-dominated field and have to put up with "sausage-fest" talk quite a bit. Forget the descent boss...he's worse and xAP is his class pet. Our HR is worthless...and there are not too many people in my field who do what I do (very limited/nonexistent openings nationwide right now). So I'm stuck, for now.

My only saving grace is I know this guy is actively seeking a job elsewhere. I am biding my time.

I avoid all social situations with work colleagues, now...it's all a "buddies" club anyways. What I can't avoid, though, is overhearing about the antics the next day. I need a bigger set of headphones.

To answer a question, he's 30. I guess that's not old enough yet. Me? Well, that's what I get for being a "cougar' at 41...he was "older" with me...but has become a juvenile lately. Or...maybe I'm just realizing he aint all that cute anymore.

Thank you for letting me vent,

Misty