Am I being paranoid?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2009
Am I being paranoid?
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Fri, 03-12-2010 - 9:26am

Hi All,

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 10:18am
It's very sad but when most women find out that you will cheat they want to keep their men as far away from you as they can. I remember when it was outed that I was having an A with a MM all of a sudden women treated me like I had the black plague. It was an awful experience to be known as a bad girl who would sleep with a MM. If they are truly your friend, why don't you call them and ask them why they are distancing themselves. I think women feel threatened. It will pass believe me and you aren't too old to make new friends.
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 12:37pm

Sorry AAI, but I have to agree with WAW. Once women know you cheat, they are uncomfortable with being around you, or having you around their H/SO's. Sadly, it's one of the painful

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 02-26-2010
Sat, 03-13-2010 - 2:13pm
Well...it's really sad, but being single i know this: married women or women who are in a relationship are being very uncomfortable just having you around when you are single! I know because these women always act very strange when i am talking to their husbands, at work, or in friends circles. They will start asking questions about me not having a relationship or they will start giving me tips on how to find a boyfriend! And they start guarding their husbands and behave all ackwardly! (And no, they do not know that I am sleeping with a MM and I don´t want them to know because having an affair was never something i planned or wished for).