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| Tue, 03-16-2010 - 1:52pm |
I got up this morning, logged on to FB like I do every day and guess who had unfriended me?
| Tue, 03-16-2010 - 1:52pm |
I got up this morning, logged on to FB like I do every day and guess who had unfriended me?
ok, jaycee, stay here, ask for support and read everything!
Jaycee, how many official goodbyes, IMs, FB messages, emails, texts, are you going to go through before you actually adopt the NO CONTACT concept? You decided to end it yesterday, told him so, asked him not to contact you and then you removed
Oh, it's done.
The strength you seek lies within YOU. We can offer hugs and support, but we cannot monitor you 24/7. Now that you talked to him AGAIN, it is entirely up to you to make this ending work. There is nothing left to be said, so no more unfriending, friending, fishing, or whatever, if you want to truly start feeling strong.
Time and distance. Give it a chance to work.
((Hugs))
~Iddy~
>>The only reason I wanted to talk to him today was because I couldn't in my heart, just end it going full blown NC without a reason. I woud be devestated if he did that to me.
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He did go NC on you without an explanation. He had a quickie with you and then you haven't heard from him for days and he unfriended you on FB. He went NC already! This is it, and you have to respect it and stay away from him.
Don't confess to your husband. No matter what everybody says, I am firm beleiver that you can't upload all that on your unsuspecting partner. You take your betrayal to your grave and suffer in silence - you made your bed, you sleep in it.
XOXO
Gone