that totally royally sucks! That hurts and you have my ouch.
You are not pathetic, there are so many sorry degrading things I've done I'm embarassed to say them even though no one would every tie them to me in RL on here.
Be happy he didn't respond and suck you back in! I had a rough day today as well all over the place because he hasn't talked to me in 3 days.
Not knowing how you'd take it, I could give you some real good sarcasm, but I'll leave that up to you if you'd like comedy.
ooooo bunny boiler eh??? (rubbing hands together) this could be very fun indeed....
Well maybe he's mad because it was his evil twin brother that you've never met that posted that profile. After all the professing of love there's no way he'd have done that to you...damn evil twins....always stirring the pot
Running is very good for you. It's not for me, that requires exercise and motivation to move around for the purpose of moving around. If I'm going to run, I better be being chased by a wild slobbering animal or a psychotic killer with a knife.
And then really you only have to be faster than someone else - :p
but I've heard tell it's good for weight loss although I prefer sleep deprevation and massive amounts of caffiene.
I have had my share of pathetic and demoralizing episodes where I've broken nc. Actually, just this week. I know where you are. But look, breaking this addiction is HARD WORK. It is not going to happen in a day, or a week, or heck, even several months. We all fall down.
The key is to get back up. You probably feel like I did the other day- like a total mess. But you know what? I am getting myself together and so can you. You are not pathetic, you are NOT a fool. You made a mistake, that's all. Now pick yourself up and move forward. Tomorrow is a new day.
What a master manipulator he is - he was professing his undying love for you, meanwhile looking for backup on AM and when got caught, he twisted it so it is all your fault and now you're the nasty one and feeling a need to apologize to this loser! Wow!
TTL, it doesn't matter how it ended (I don't think there is such a thing as amicable ending to affair anyway) as long as it is staying ended. As much as your self-esteem crushed now, you're still better off than begging him for forgiveness and then in no time you're back in affair. You don't need any of that. He is trying to punish you with his silence right now. Pretty sick.
Get yourself together and restart NC. You haven't died over last week without him, and you won't die for a couple more weeks. And then it will start to get better.
This really really helped me when I was feeling like you are right now. I read it over and over again.
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this. When people can walk away from you, let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us.
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay. Let them go.
And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to… LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains… LET IT GO!!!
If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth… LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you … LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge… LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction… LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents… LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude… LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better… LET IT GO!!!
If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him… LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship… LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves… LET IT GO!!!
If you’re feeling depressed and stressed … LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying “take your hands off of it,” then you need to… LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing��� LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then … LET IT GO!!!
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that totally royally sucks! That hurts and you have my ouch.
You are not pathetic, there are so many sorry degrading things I've done I'm embarassed to say them even though no one would every tie them to me in RL on here.
Be happy he didn't respond and suck you back in! I had a rough day today as well all over the place because he hasn't talked to me in 3 days.
Not knowing how you'd take it, I could give you some real good sarcasm, but I'll leave that up to you if you'd like comedy.
again though - I'm glad you didn't talk to him.
He's bipolar but medicated and is able to hold down a very high functioning career.
TTL,
Chalk this one up to your first major learning experience.
ooooo bunny boiler eh??? (rubbing hands together) this could be very fun indeed....
Well maybe he's mad because it was his evil twin brother that you've never met that posted that profile. After all the professing of love there's no way he'd have done that to you...damn evil twins....always stirring the pot
Running is very good for you. It's not for me, that requires exercise and motivation to move around for the purpose of moving around. If I'm going to run, I better be being chased by a wild slobbering animal or a psychotic killer with a knife.
And then really you only have to be faster than someone else - :p
but I've heard tell it's good for weight loss although I prefer sleep deprevation and massive amounts of caffiene.
Trying,
I have had my share of pathetic and demoralizing episodes where I've broken nc. Actually, just this week. I know where you are. But look, breaking this addiction is HARD WORK. It is not going to happen in a day, or a week, or heck, even several months. We all fall down.
The key is to get back up. You probably feel like I did the other day- like a total mess. But you know what? I am getting myself together and so can you. You are not pathetic, you are NOT a fool. You made a mistake, that's all. Now pick yourself up and move forward. Tomorrow is a new day.
(HUGS)
Hazel
What a master manipulator he is - he was professing his undying love for you, meanwhile looking for backup on AM and when got caught, he twisted it so it is all your fault and now you're the nasty one and feeling a need to apologize to this loser! Wow!
TTL, it doesn't matter how it ended (I don't think there is such a thing as amicable ending to affair anyway) as long as it is staying ended. As much as your self-esteem crushed now, you're still better off than begging him for forgiveness and then in no time you're back in affair. You don't need any of that. He is trying to punish you with his silence right now. Pretty sick.
Get yourself together and restart NC. You haven't died over last week without him, and you won't die for a couple more weeks. And then it will start to get better.
XOXO
Gone
As Cher told Nicholas Cage in "Moonstruck," SNAP OUT OF IT!!!
You have absolutely nothing to apologize for. Pffft. Done. Good ridance. Rejoice.
Don't mean to sound flippant, but seriously TTL, do not waste another single emotion on this slime ball.
Hi TTL-
This really really helped me when I was feeling like you are right now. I read it over and over again.
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this. When people can walk away from you, let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us.
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay. Let them go.
And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to… LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains… LET IT GO!!!
If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth… LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you … LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge… LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction… LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents… LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude… LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better… LET IT GO!!!
If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him… LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship… LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves… LET IT GO!!!
If you’re feeling depressed and stressed … LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying “take your hands off of it,” then you need to… LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing��� LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then … LET IT GO!!!
NC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
GBG, great advice!
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