Over months ago, but to see him again?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-01-2009
Over months ago, but to see him again?
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Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:57pm

Hello-


So the last time I saw my former AP was late august/early september. I went to LC and to even lower C in the following months.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 2:40am

Hi I_am_clear,


Welcome to EAS.


Just so “I am clear” you had an A (affair) with a man who is not available to you (married) and you were simply a “matter of convenience for him” and now you have this and I want to get this exactly right so I will insert your wording here:


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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 10:18am

Clear,
You "did what you could to move on"? Five will get you Ten that you could do a lot more to move on. A lot more. Instead of telling you what you could do, why don't you tell us? Really, only you know where you are in this process.

So, you've snagged Mr. Wonderful? Awesome. Do you deserve him? If you go to this reunion and spent an ounce of energy engaging AP, then you are giving Mr. Wonderful (and yourself) much less than he deserves. Please read here about how the enders have had to deal with xAP at events, the ones who have the difficult struggle of LC by no choice of their own, and you will know exactly how to handle yourself at this event.

I wish you all the best,
Dee