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| Mon, 03-29-2010 - 11:23am |
Hey everyone. Just wanted to let you know I'm still here. I had a hard week, but I made it. I'm hanging in.
Hazel
| Mon, 03-29-2010 - 11:23am |
Hey everyone. Just wanted to let you know I'm still here. I had a hard week, but I made it. I'm hanging in.
Hazel
I am glad you're still here. Don't give up!! I know it's a huge struggle :-(
hugs, HTGO
Welcome back ;)
I encourage you to do the hard work of figuring out your "whys." The knowledge you gain about yourself will be worth the struggle you are going through.
You are worth it! It will
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Thanks you guys :) I feel all talked out. I have analyzed and turned this thing over and over and said all the words I can about it for now. There's really nothing else to say for me. It's just time to do the work.
Thanks for being there, as always. :)
Hazel
Hi Hazel- Thank you for checking in... you know when I don't see posts from you I wonder where you are and if you are ok. You can never really be done talking about this... it's a long road and you will need constant reminders, which you know. There are so many phases to wade through before we feel like we are healed ... and before we reach indifference. Keep plodding ahead. We will all be here to support you.
Love,
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane,
Thanks, Ms. RockStar ;-) You are a rock star lately around here, but I say that jokingly. Watching you rock it out has helped me keep going, so thank you!
When I said I am talked out for now, I just meant.... it's time for me to start actually DOING the work, instead of just talking the talk, you know what I mean? I get on here and encourage people and I talk about how great NC is..... but then I am a hypocrite because I screw up so badly myself! I just want to put up, or shut up, as they say! LOL!!!
:)
Hazel
I'll take Rock Star... though I am far from it. You'd think less of my rock star status if you saw me bawling like a baby in the shower this weekend. Boo hoo... I got caught up in self pity. It's so pathetic, but therapeutic if that makes any sense.
You are not a hypocrite. It takes time. Don't be too down on yourself, just pick yourself up, read your old posts to others... they are very inspiring. You get it- you really do. Your posts illustrate that. Now, just pick yourself up and yes, walk the talk. You can do it. I know you can. Just because since I've posted here I've maintained NC doesn't mean I didn't fall flat on my face for over a year and numerous attempts at NC. I found this board at the right time- at the absolute lowest of lows. I have so much faith in you because I've read your words and I've listened, taken it to heart and used it for inspiration. Yes, Hazel, this rock star garners strength from you. You are amazing.
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
I'm so glad to see you! Just you wait and see, the next month is going to be HUGE for you; I can just _feel_ it!
xo
Dee
My Sweet Hazel,
Your post are very inspiring to me.
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Edited 4/29/2010 4:41 pm ET by hazelrose2009