Can't be happy for him....
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Can't be happy for him....
| Wed, 03-31-2010 - 6:28pm |
The physical part of my affair ended more than 10 years ago.
| Wed, 03-31-2010 - 6:28pm |
The physical part of my affair ended more than 10 years ago.
Hi Lisa and welcome. Ten years is a long time to hold on to someone, and obviosuly this man was providing you with something that you were not able to find in your marriage. Maybe there was that little fantasy on the back of your mind that sometime, somehow you will end up together, and now you are facing the reality that this will never happen and there is no second chances after all.
It is time for you to step back and give him a chance to move on with his life - I am a little surprised that it actually took him that long - but again, everybody's different. The most loving and respecting thing you can do for him is to leave him alone once and for all, and grieve and heal yourself.
XOXO
Gone
Lisa,
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~Iddy~
Thank you cl-iddy!
Hello Lisa -
Welcome to EAS.
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Hi Lisa,
I, as well, can very much relate to your story. I am a long time lurker, and have been waiting for someone to come along with a similar situation.
Hi Jane,
I have been following your story while lurking and I am amazed at your journey and the level of maturity and insight that you have at your age.
Welcome to EAS lisaspring....I am really slammed today getting ready for Easter break and won't be on here for the next couple of days, but I wanted