How do you ask, or do you just NOT?

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Registered: 01-25-2008
How do you ask, or do you just NOT?
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Thu, 01-31-2008 - 7:34am

I am seeing this guy and have been for about 4.5 months now. He wants to have a threesome or maybe even two other women plus me and himself of course. I'm thinking about it but thats about as far as that goes...

What I am wondering about here is I really, REALLY want to have him AND his best friend, another guy.

My guy is not embarrassed of his body at all, ((every man needs a body like his!! WHEW!!)) there have already been a couple of times we have drank too much and I have given him a BJ while sitting in his best friends lap.

OMG did that turn me ON!

He never reached full erection let alone got off when this happened but I certainly was turned on!

What I want to know is how would YOU react if your SO told you and MEANT it that she wants both you AND your VERY best friend at the same time. Would you feel differently about her? If you went through with it would that make you feel strange to be intimate with her again? What if the best friend wore a condom, that way his semen never gets inside your girl?

Has anyone here ever done this? If so what were your feelings afterwards?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 01-31-2008 - 8:50am

Hi and welcome sianakaylynn. Nice to meet you. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks a lot. Stick around and jump un anytime. The people here are wonderful.


Well, I've never done this, but next time he brings up the subject of a 3some, why not suggest this and see what he says. Tell him how much that turns you own. Would you be willing to do the FMF?

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Thu, 01-31-2008 - 5:31pm
Not sure on my feelings of FMF... Posted about this already. I have some weight I want to take off before I actually SERIOUSLY consider doing that. Can't have him seeing me with other chicks NAKED and they look BETTER!