No Fantasy?

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Registered: 01-23-2007
No Fantasy?
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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:52am
I have been talking to my Dh about fantasies. I told him one of mine and we did it. I have asked him what one of his fantasies is and he said he doesn't really have any! I don't believe him. How do

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2004
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 1:54pm

My advice is - Don't worry about him, and just worry about you. Just keep enjoying things, keep exploring your own fantasies, and keep enjoying things. I think that if you continue to do he'll see how much fun your having and eventually open up.

Try it out. Can't hurt, and it could be fun for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 2:26pm

Great advice Sin!

glad to see you back......

I thought I scared you off the other night!




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Registered: 10-24-2004
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 2:49pm

Scared me off? Nope, I don't scare that easily.

But seriously, I hope the advice is helpful. Almost an indirect approach.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 2:52pm

Good to hear that you dont scare easily.......

I forget and get too aggressive with newbies sometimes! LOL

;>)




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Registered: 10-24-2004
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 2:58pm

Feel free to be as agressive with me as you like. lol.

About the other night. I needed to hit the sack early. Sorry for not saying bye. And then a busy weekend kept me away.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 3:07pm

well,

im just glad you are back!

did I read that you dont drink?




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Registered: 10-24-2004
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 3:21pm
Thats is correct. There's a few reasons for that. My faith, the taste, and seeing the effects of drinking while I was growing up.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: mlynn27634
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 3:33pm

well Sin, we have virtual parties here and the alcohol flows freely! however.. some drink
and some dont.

but we always have fun........

feel free to join in anywhere........

I also have issues about alcohol in my family
my oldest brother died from it




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Registered: 10-24-2004
In reply to: mlynn27634
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 1:54am

Sorry to hear that about your brother. My issues deal with my father.....but, atleast he's not so much like that anymore.

Virtual parties......hmmm. I'll just have to drink pepsi.

But I'm wandering. At these parties, do people go missing? What I mean is, do certain individuals winds up in certain bedrooms with other certain individuals? LoL.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: mlynn27634
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 7:39am
Sometimes that does happen... Or sometimes they just go off to the corner...

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