A Strange Question for Some...

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A Strange Question for Some...
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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 2:36pm

Ok...so, one of my girlfriends and I were discussing men the other day (big suprise lol) and she mentioned an affinity for Heath Ledger, whom we all know passed away a few weeks back. She claims she doesn't enjoy fantasising about him now that he's not roaming the earth with the rest of us. This got me thinking as things often do, and there are a few (well one in particular) people that have passed that I enjoy, but that still finds his way into my fantasies. So, ladies and gentlemen, my question is (morbid as it may be to some lol..but you know me ~wink~) Do you guys have a fantasy person such as this? Just curious, I thought my friends comments on the subject were quite interesting, so I wanted to get others opinions.


And in case you're curious...this is Jon Nodtveidt, the one I spoke of above (and if the name didn't give him away..yes he's Swedish LOL):


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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 3:24pm

YEars ago I had a hookup with a girl in the back of a mini van in the parking lot of a bar. About a year later she was killed on a motorcycle. Sometimes in the shower when I am feeling a bit horny she has crossed my mind. She pinched my leg when she was gving me oral. The pinching was a distraction, but the oral sex part had to do something with the way she was doing it. Cant place exactly waht it was, but it was a spuritng event.

Yes I have thought about that night while in the shower.

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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:29pm
Nope, once a person has died, they no longer appeal to me in that way. I guess it's just too morbid for my fragile libido to handle.
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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 10:47pm

Don't know who that guy is but he sure was good looking!

I never knew anyone who died, well besides my gram.... as for someone famous? I honestly never fantasied about famous people. I might the way they look but eh...

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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:14am

Don't know who that guy is but he sure was good looking!


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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 9:55am

Some of you know this story - some only know part of it - others know nothing about it...


The guy in the 'moonlightnroses' story...we became engaged when we were 20.











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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:03am
What a beautiful (and heart wrenching) story Moon. I had not heard this one from you before. People whom I've talked with in the past about such topics have often found it a little "morbid". I, like you, never thought of it that way.

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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:29am
((HUGS)) Moon!!

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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:36am

L, we probably could find a better place to discuss this...but -


I believe we are spirit beings living out an earthly existence.











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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:44am

Thanks, ST - you are always so loving and supportive.











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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:44am
Moon...I too, am a believer.

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