Tie Him Up? Help Please.

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Registered: 07-24-2007
Tie Him Up? Help Please.
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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 12:58pm
My boyfriend has told me that he would like for me to tie him up and have my way with him. I have never done it, but I would like to. But, first, I don't even know the best way to tie him up. What do you use? What do you tie him to? Then, what are the best things to do once he is tied up? I want to really make sure that he enjoys this. I'm pretty sure I will. I can really use any advice you all can give!!!
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Registered: 08-03-2006
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:17pm

Hi there,


I think I can shed some light on this one. First off, alot of people are inclined to used something like a silk scarf or tie or something, this is a

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Registered: 02-21-2005
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:26pm

Another possibility ( and one that has always appealed to me) would be to use something easily broken, like string or twine to represent

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 3:49pm

We have used ties but we use lose knots and just tie the hands together and not to anything.

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 10:43pm

They have soft Velcro cuffs at the toy stores, you can even get them online. If needed a man wouldn't have any issue breaking them, and they are hooked together with clips and the cuffs are held to the wrist by velcro. I have a set, haven't used them very often but I can tell you they are really nice!! They don't hurt, don't cut into you, can be used to hook you to the bed or anything else. You feel safe, they wouldn't take a lot to get out of if you really wanted to, yet they will hold you right where your placed too!

Wonderful invention the soft cuff!

I think they were like $20.00 a pair? Can't remember I have had them a long time.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 12:50pm

ALl good ideas for angelhill, but no one suggested to gag him with her panties. Or his underwear. Or am I on the wrong board, maybe taboos, or BDSM.

Maybe this is my own fantasy

Let us know what happens angelhill.

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Registered: 11-09-2005
Fri, 02-22-2008 - 10:18pm

I have some out-of-style neckties that I use. I tie the knots like shoelaces so they are easy to untie, but just about any kind of knot is pretty easy to undo when you're dealing with a necktie. Sometimes I use two together if one is not long enough. We don't have bed posts, so if I want to tie DW to anything, I have to wrap the ties around the legs of the bed. You could also tie him to a chair. But you can also just tie his hands together. Or tie one hand to each thigh. A neck tie can also be a blindfold.

I think my favorite is to tie a knot around one wrist, then loop the tie around her neck once, then tie the other wrist with the other end of the same tie, so that if she pulls her hands down, the tie tightens around her neck, but if she holds her hands close to her neck, it's completely loose. Mmm.

Have fun!

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