Well , ex's are that for a reason . It does not mean that they are bad people .Just that it didn't work for us . Almost all of them still say friends , not close but we talk , give each other advise . There are times that we do things together with their SO's . FWB is out of the question , we can at time tease or taunt each other we have that unspoken boundery .We know each other to well .
I fall into the camp inhabited by people who wouldn't have sex with any of their exes. I wouldn't have even before I married my husband. I'm the type of person who exhausts all possibilities for saving the relationship before I leave, so by the time an ex is an ex, there really aren't any feelings left -- which, for me, precludes sex as an option.
My ex denied my any form of physical contact during the last seven years of marriage.
I have. It wasn't in any attempt to get us back together or anything. I just wanted it. We realized that we got along a lot better as friends