Can't Get It Off My Mind

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Can't Get It Off My Mind
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 4:55pm

Hi all...I am a 45 year old married male and an occastional lurker, but have a situation that I think this group could help me understand.

Two days ago I attended a basketball game, where my family and I sat behind another family. The family in front of us had a little 4-5 month old baby, cute as the dickens! Well, we all had a great time oohing and awhing over the baby and one time as I was looking over, the mom leaned forward in just such a way that I caught a view of her cleavage, nothing too revealing, but enough that I was just amazed at how beautiful it was.

I caught myself and refocused on the Ball game, but I kept looking out of the corner of my eye for another opportunity...and over the course of the game I saw the same view a couple more times...

This sounds funny but I cannot get the thought of that woman and her cleavage out of my mind! The memory has overcome me 10 times at least since, and I feel guilty about lusting after this woman, and a new mother at that!

Any thoughts about this?

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Registered: 07-09-1998
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 5:00pm

Welcome Smithandyslc,


There is nothing wrong with looking and enjoying a woman. Will you be seeing her again at another BBgame?







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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 5:10pm
I will not likely see her, season is over, but that was the first time I saw her there.
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 5:14pm

Howdy!

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 5:21pm

Hmmmm...maybe your on to something there!

I am beginning to think it is about the unexpected nature of it...because there were cheerleaders, etc. there and it has never phased me like that!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 5:48pm
Any possibility she was trying to show some cleavage to me? (maybe this is just part of the fantasy?)
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 6:30pm

To you??? Don't want to burst that little bubble of yours..... So I'm not going to say no.

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Registered: 07-09-1998
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 6:33pm
anybody that shows cleavage, is wanting people to look. So yes she wanted you to look.







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