Ok I know this is the place to ask. I know I have my ideas of what being a collared submissive is but can someone give me more information on this? I was just wondering and I know this board has a ton of information. Please fill me in and thank you ........
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www(dot)albanypowerexchange(dot)com/BDSMinfo/the_collar.htm
Like Sisterhoney, I too am a submissive. Feel free to ask whatever you like, we're pretty open people ~smile~
Lothiriel
Thank you both for your quick response. Are you submissive to your master in every area of you life?
Do you get a say so?
Is it more of a sexual thing or is there more to it?
As for myself, yes, I am submissive to my Master in every day life, though He doesn't rule me with an iron fist. I do wear a collar 24/7 and refer to Him as "Master" and "Sir," as well as by His first name. I do have a say so in O/our relationship, though I defer to Him in most decisions. W/we discuss major decisions, though He will usually make the final one. He will sometimes pick out my clothes, decide what W/we'll eat, where W/we spend vacation, etc.
I always have the use of a safeword and He respects my limits sexually. A lot of it has do with sex, but it goes far deeper than that. My Master knows me better then I know myself. He completely accepts me and I trust Him implictly, so much so that I willingly hand control over to Him. When I found Him and began O/our D/s relationship I knew that I had finally come home. I am safe with Him because I know that He would never intentionally hurt me. I can tell Him all my lurid fantasies and He accepts them and does His best to help me fulfill them. He was the one who showed me how much I enjoy pain, bondage, being controlled, etc. I will never go back to a vanilla erlationship. I simply can't get what I want and need from that.
Whats this collar thing? I submit to my lover all the time but we have never used any thing other than our hands. He makes me submit by grabbing my throat and holding me down. I have seen collar's in porn but I am having trouble wrapping my mind around master submissive thing.
Help me understand?
I dont' know much about this life style but thank you for helping me understand. First I want to say, I think you and your master should be commended for noticing your son is too young to understand. I can tell by your writing you care for your son and are probably a great mother and very smart! So if I understand
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