talked to DH about finding a lady friend

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Registered: 04-10-2008
talked to DH about finding a lady friend
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 3:44pm

OK... About a month or 3 ago I talked to dh about wanting to explore my sexuality and having an interest in finding a woman and having a fwb kind of relationship. He is very supportive of it and so I put an ad on Craigslist a few months back. I got quite a few responses from other married women looking for the same thing. After talking to a few of them I narrowed it down to one. Her and I have been talking for about 2-3 weeks and have met. WE hung out and before I went home I took a gamble and kissed her. Wow! Let me tell u... It was nothing like kissing my dh. Now we've been talking about taking it to the next level and having fun. I won't be seeing her for another week and a half. :(


I am trying to think of ways to get from a kiss to other things slowly without seeming like I am rushing things. Any ideas? Neither her nor I have ever been with a woman.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 4:00pm
Good for you. Since the two of you have already been talking about this, ask her how far she's wanting to go with it. You want to do what's comfortable for both of you.

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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 4:47pm

already talked and she wants to do whatever comes up. Just getting the time that might be difficult.