Fantasy: Its all about the size

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Fantasy: Its all about the size
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:04am
My fantasy revolves around another man giving me wife pleasure. I'm a man of below average size (5"), and I know my wife has had and enjoyed larger. Of course i'm not talking crazy big....just bigger. like a good thick 7-9. They say size doesn't matter...but almost every girl i have the discussion with.....once you break through their knee jerk reaction to say it doesn't matter.....they all end up saying that bigger is usually better. what do you guys think?
I'd love to watch my wife enjoy another man. Hear her noises and see her face. Watch her reactions:)....

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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:55am

I think you need to keep this a fantasy of yours. You've brought this up once before and apparently she's not interested in doing anything with someone else.


Ok, I wasn't going to say this but I can't help it... Not all women care about size. Maybe the girls you've spoken to do. Me, personally, I'll never change my mind. I don't care what size the man is. I care



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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 10:32am
I have been with men with smaller penises and have enjoyed them, but I fess up. I do love my Man's 10" penis better. Love it when he 'hits bottom'. Uterine orgasms beat clitororal or vaginal everytime. Warning: if you have a man with a big one, make sure he knows how to use it or it can hurt if they hit the cervix. Must go up along side it. One drawback of the more-endowed----no anal.
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 2:15pm

Hmm-

Interesting...I actually like average to "small" guys- I've found that it feels better, and is more comfortable to me. Bigger is NOT always better- especially when you have a small vag...did you know that women also vary in size..down there?

A fantasy is a fantasy, but like BL said, you have to make sure DW is down for it. If you're feeling down about things down below, why not perhaps look for an attachment that may elongate your member? Or maybe a toy that measures up to your fantasy? :oP

Hope this helps!

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 4:24pm
Some women are into size, just like some men are into huge breasts.
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Registered: 09-22-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 5:46pm
There are male enhancement pills out there. Why not give some of them a try and why not try a toy that would be perfect for your DW while your taking the pills and then one day surprise her with a bigger, better YOU!
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Registered: 09-18-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 10:57pm

Why not film the two of you together and watch her reactions after? I bet she loves what you're doing to her, and watching her after will be a real turn on. If you're really set in this and she wants to go along with sleeping with another man, be careful of getting jealous. How about going to a bar or swingers club and see her interact with other men; see how you react to this?

I know it's a great fantasy, in fact my Fwb has the same fantasy about me. But whenever I even talk to another man he gets really jealous even though he is adamant about wanting this fantasy come true. He just loves my reactions and I can understand wanting to watch from the sidelines, different view and all. He feels the same as you about his size and I really have no issue with big or small, I've had both. As a matter of fact, smaller really hits my g-spot and can make me cum like crazy. If your wife says and acts like she enjoys you, believe her. This can be dangerous territory.

Good luck

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:03am
She knows of my fantasy an isn't yet into the idea. The jealousy to me is part of the turn on though i know i would never get jealous enough to be mad at her or anything. I know she enjoys me and filming does sound like fun. I just know she would really be climbing the walls so to speak if she was getting it a bit bigger.
We tried the toys but haven't found anything she likes yet. She says she doesn't like them because they don't feel real. Right now i would be happy just getting her to perhaps chat online with a guy or be more open about it with me as we play around.
I do like the idea of her just flirting with men and letting me watch, I just don't think she would do it.
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:05am
its been told to me like this: A guy who is smaller but knows how to use it is better than a big guy who doesn't. But a big guy who knows how to use it is the best. More intense, more full feeling.
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:08am
thanks for the idea. I've been thinking of an extension for some time now. That might be a nice surprise for her soon:)
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:09am
i did alot of research on the pills and they don't work. I wish they did!

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