Crossing the Line?

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Registered: 09-27-2008
Crossing the Line?
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Sat, 09-27-2008 - 12:38pm

I would never actually want to be forced to have sex with somebody I am not attracted to, but I would love for my man to force me to have sex with him. When I say "force" I mean when I tell him I'm not really in the mood, I'm actually looking to make him so frustrated that he'll just pin me down and force me to take it. I want him to take me completely at his own pace, not showing any concern if I'm in pain or not. Actually I think an element of pain would make it even sexier. The thought of him acting in such a dominant, instinctively male sort of way turns me on to no end. Knowing he is too strong for me to show any sort of resistance makes me sooo wet. Problem is he's too nice of a guy and he's constantly asking me if I'm alright during sex.. I've been told before that this is a very f*cked up rape fantasy but I don't really view that as a rape fantasy. I guess technically it sort of is but I think rape is such a horrible thing and relating that to my own sexual practices is so far from who I actually am.

Anyone have a take on this?? And is there anyone else here that shares a similar fantasy or am I truthfully sort of f*cked up?

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Registered: 09-27-2008
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 4:06pm

First of all, you are not f*cked up!

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Registered: 01-14-2007
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 4:12pm

psst

The Sassy One

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Registered: 09-27-2008
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 4:53pm
Sorry about that... it won't happen again.
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Registered: 01-14-2007
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 5:12pm

Sorry about that... it won't happen again.

The Sassy One

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Sat, 09-27-2008 - 5:59pm

Ouch that whip stings!

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Registered: 01-14-2007
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 6:01pm

Ouch that whip stings!


you say that like you enjoyed it! LOL

The Sassy One


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Registered: 09-27-2008
Sat, 09-27-2008 - 6:52pm

It was meant with a splash of humor.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sun, 09-28-2008 - 8:49pm

Master and I roleplay this all the time, because it makes me hot and very turned on. And I certainly don't see myself as f*cked up. I consider myself to be normal, because this is normal for me. And what others think doesn't matter. They aren't the ones I'm having sex with. I am living my life the way that I see fit and enjoying every minute of it.


As long as you and your SO are enjoying yourselves and aren't causing permament harm, then you're free to do whatever you wish in the bedroom. And no one else has the right to tell you otherwise.

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Registered: 04-26-2008
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 8:27am

Sounds like you want to be dominated and some role playing........ Nothing wrong with that at all.


Problem is he's too nice of a guy and he's constantly asking me if I'm alright during sex..

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Fri, 10-03-2008 - 10:03pm

I as a male wish my wife had a fantasy like this, or similar. I have had a fantasy of this being her fantasy.


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