Fantasy Vs. Reality Help

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Fantasy Vs. Reality Help
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Sun, 10-12-2008 - 3:23pm

So....i have stopped by the board a few times, but never had the courage to post or write anything....until now.

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Registered: 07-10-1999
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 9:46pm
I haven't really tried it myself and don't have any advice other than what you're doing. I think you're being really smart about it. Somebody else on her may be able to help you better. I just wanted to suggest that you may want to also try posting on the taboos board. They have a "open relationship" section where you may be able to hear from more folks who've tried it:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rltaboos
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 10-13-2008 - 7:52am

Hi and welcome goofycagirl. Nice to meet you. The people here are great, so stick around and jump in anytime.


You say you're not ready for this, so I would say keep talking to your husband about it. Talk, talk, and then talk some more. Who will select this other man? Does your husband want to be there to watch, when he's home? Think really hard before you do anything. Make sure it's really something you want to do.

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Registered: 09-24-2008
Mon, 10-13-2008 - 12:14pm
I understand that experimenting is great in a relationship but just be sure it is exactly what you want.
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Registered: 09-27-2008
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 10:14pm

Pick ME!!


Okay seriously,