New Here. Lets Talk....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
New Here. Lets Talk....
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Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:22pm

Hello all! I found this MB kind of of a random search. I read some of what you guys have posted and I find myself both thankful to find what seems like a great on-line community and a little short of breath with some of the fantasies!! LOL

Honestly, this MB has restored my faith that men aren't the only one with libidos. I know that sounds terribly sexist, but the last relationships that I have been in have been very, well...dry. Sexual contact has largely only been like a charity event in my honor. Yeah, I know, why should I complain, right? If that is your response, then you are probably coming from a place where I can't really communicate with you about this. If you understand why thats a bad thing, then we can communicate, I guess.

I'm not a bad looking guy (by most accounts), I'm a gentleman, I'm clean cut, I'm pretty intelligent, I'm in good shape, etc. I enjoy cooking, reading, music, sports, etc. I don't think I'm too bad in the sack. I enjoy giving a woman oral sex, I generally keep an erection after my first orgasm. I'm very patient and try to be very generous as a lover and as a human being, in general.

So, here is my fantasy, at the moment:

To find some one with desire. Honestly, I'm not looking for any sort of relationship or anything like that, at this point. I'm pretty frustrated with that search. I want simply to be the object of, and be the answer to, and the satisfaction of someone's desires.

I'd love to hear feedback. Either here, or in my regular email at seekingwisdom3333@yahoo.com

Thanks for letting me join you here!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:39pm

Welcome to the board Guy!

This is a great place to share your fantasies and make friends. Usually everyone here is very open and accepting.

One little hint: Be sure to read the terms of service so you will understand the rules of play and not get into any trouble....

Great to See you Here!

Cindy

PS...... have you filled out your profile completely?

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Registered: 08-03-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:45pm

Hi there and welcome to the board. Glad you stumbled upon us. We have a great group of people around here, so I hope you'll stick around.


So, I feel compelled to ask, why do you feel that sex for you has been a "charity event" in the past? I can understand why that might make you feel a little empty and unfulfilled. You seem like a good guy but I feel that (and correct me if I am wrong) you might suffer from a bit of low self esteem. Stick around, the folks here are very inciteful and we all come from different backgrounds and can offer advice on a wealth of topics.

Lothiriel


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Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous


~Anais Nin

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:57pm

Hi! Thanks for welcoming be aboard!

I did go ahead and fill out a good portion of that profile, so let me know what you think.

About the terms of service thing....have I already committed some sort of transgression here?? If so, please let me know, and accept my must humble of apologies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:01pm

lothiriel,

Yes, I will correct you in that I don't suffer from low self esteem. I don't consider myself too prideful or arrogant, either. I am solidly confident. There are reasons why I have felt this way, but going into them publicly I don't wish to do. However, those close to me (in proximity, with whom I speak directly) have all agreed with me. We can talk about the signs in private email, if you wish.

Thanks for being understanding, though. I look forward to speaking with you more, soon!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:32pm

You are welcome for the welcome!

LOL... sometimes I crack myself up!

anyway....... great to have you here. Many of us hear can understand your feelings on feeling like a "charity case" when it comes to sex.

A lot of us here deal with it on a daily basis. Funny how some high libido women (such as myself) have such low libido partners. There is a lot of information out there and I am sure you will get a bunch of opinions and offers of advice.

Thanks for filling out your profile.

Now...........Tell me your all time favorite song!

(btw......... im very very into music)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:37pm

Hi! I love this place - it seems to be full of people that are just like me - LOL! What struck me about your post is what

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:45pm
You know Cin...I think even if you held a .45 to my head, I couldnt pick just one favorite song lol

Lothiriel


shagrath.jpg s image by mightyseven


Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous


~Anais Nin

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:45pm

Very good question. More difficult to answer than you'd think, actually.

I think I have experienced things close, but not completely, I think.

Very interesting question. Thank you! What mountain town are you from?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 2:50pm
YOU MUST commit.......... come on.
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Registered: 01-22-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 3:01pm

Welcome to the board.

Born to Live.

 

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