A THREESOME??

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Registered: 10-28-2008
A THREESOME??
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Tue, 10-28-2008 - 7:40am

SO my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years and we are planning on gettting married hopefuly this fall well i am 4 years older then my boyfriend and since he was a virgin when we got together we decited that we wantd to do something that neither of us had done before and will probley never do again.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: joker_chick
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 8:08am

Hi and welcome. The people here are great, so stick around and jump in anytime. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks.


You're hopefully getting married in the fall? Either you are or your not. I don't know much about 3somes, but I do think you need to talk, talk, and talk some more about it. What kind are you looking for? A MFM, FMF. I would think you both need to be sure that either of you won't get jealous. What happens if you do the FMF and he decides he doesn't want to get married, and wants to play around with others? Will you be ok with that?

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Registered: 08-13-2008
In reply to: joker_chick
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 9:00am

Welcome to the board, joker_chick! Stay a while- everyone is super friendly, and we just love giving/receiving advice!

As to your questions, I pretty much echo nhgal- make sure you're ready, talk about it 'till you're both blue in the face, decide how you want to go about it (MMF or FFM), and make sure to be safe, if you decide to do it. I don't have any experience with threesomes, so I unfortunately can't help with how to find a playmate personally; maybe check out craigslist under the adult personals, or myspace pages, maybe?

I wish you luck in whatever you decide, and congrats on your engagement!

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Registered: 08-30-2008
In reply to: joker_chick
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 10:00pm
I have no experience but you need to think it through before you do it - like will it affect trust or insecurities?
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Registered: 10-24-2008
In reply to: joker_chick
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 11:26am

I cant give you any help on the where to start but

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Registered: 04-20-2008
In reply to: joker_chick
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 4:49pm

It can be a relationship killer if you are the jealous type or you don't set the ground rules first. IMO a friend of yours is best