sexy dice

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Registered: 04-25-2004
sexy dice
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Thu, 05-13-2004 - 8:28pm
Hi,

I have seen some dice with words on them (body parts and actions) such as "kiss" and "neck" that are used to help with foreplay. I'm wondering if anyone knows of any other games or ideas to help two shy people open up and feel less awkward about being intimate (or getting things started). I think the dice are a great idea for this sort of situation and just wondering if anyone knows of anything else that might be fun to try.

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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: peacefulez
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 8:25am
Poker is always a great game. Instead of chips or money, use sexual acts. Keep raising the ante, until one of you lose the hand! On average a hand lasts only a few minutes...just enough to keep things flowing and exciting.
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Registered: 01-08-2003
In reply to: peacefulez
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 5:04pm
There are lots of ways to initiate foreplay. There are some fun games you can buy. As a shy person, you might like the game, An Enchanted Evening, it is directed at light foreplay and getting to sexually know one another. You can purchase it at www.timefortwo.com. But almost any game you have can be adapted to initiate foreplay. An adaptation of the dice game is to get two different color of index cards. On one color write a sexual act and on the other write body parts. Then take turns picking two cards, one from each color and acting them out. Any game with rounds can be played as a strip game. For example, play Scrabble and after each round the person who made a word with the less points has to take off some item of clothing. If a person passes and can't make a word, then they have to perform some sex act with their partner for two minutes. Naughty words score double points. If you like sports, you can watch a game and pick opposing sides. For each point your team scores you receive a sex act from your partner for two minutes. This is fun if you watch the game live and then anticipate getting home and extracting your rewards. But not all ways to initiate foreplay have to be games. Make an erogenous map of your lover's body. Draw an outline of your lover's body (don't worry about the art work of it all) and then explore your lover's body. Touch, stroke, kiss, and lick all over your lover's body. Ask him to rate how good it feels when you get to each area using some simple point scale like 1 for good, 2 for great and 3 for WOW. Then color the area on the diagram using blue for good, purple for great and red for WOW. Beware this will probably take you about a month to complete because he isn't likely going to let you get very far before he interrupts, lol. Another fun thing to do is the "What would you do if I do...." game. This involves saying...What would you do if I do...and then do something sexual to your partner. It can be simple things like kiss him or stroke his arm. Then he replies with...I would do... and then does something back. And you keep taking turns for as long as you can stand it, lol. You might also try a truth or dare kind of game. In this game you ask your lover a question. He can either answer it or perform a requested sex act. Ask the questions that help you get to know his sexual desires. For example: If I gave you a box and told you to bring it to bed, what would you hope would be in it? If you were designing women's lingerie, what color would you primarily use? If you were going to take an erotic photograph of me, what would I wear and how would I be posing? If I were to do a striptease for you, what one item would you want me to keep on? He should create some similar questions for you and you can take turns asking them. Anyway this is getting long, but I hope this at least sparks some ideas for you.

Robin

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: peacefulez
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 5:34pm
Why not just sit closely by him and talk. Put your hand on his leg, if you sit close enough, he may kiss you or you could always give him a little peck on the cheek or the neck. That will turn him on. The first time, my husband kissed me, he kissed me on the neck - it's very soft and sexy and sends tingles down your spine - for both parties! It's a nice tender way to get to the real kiss!

I wish you luck with the games though if that's the way you want to go. I'm sure they are fun! I've never played them.

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Registered: 05-14-2004
In reply to: peacefulez
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 5:51pm
I agree with the kissing ... also just a simple touch ... I know for me if my guy gently srokes my arm or the back, or side of my neck ...well tht makes me a very happy girl!

As for games... One of my favs is strip twister...or even start slower ... Play till one of you falls & then who evern falls has to kiss the other on the apandage that cause the fall ... say he tripps over you arm he has to kiss you arm ... etc....

Also oyu can write a few things that ou';d like to try on strips of paper 7 draw themn & do them

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Registered: 04-25-2004
In reply to: peacefulez
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 10:57am
Wow! Thank you all for the great ideas. I can't wait to try some things out!
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Registered: 03-13-2004
In reply to: peacefulez
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 11:28am
Hee hee - I have those dice but they are more explicit... one di says "bedroom" "living room" "kitchen" "Bathroom" "closet" and somewhere else...

and on the other are sexual positions (drawn out).

Very fun!

But perhaps you are talking about something a little more innocent right?

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Registered: 04-25-2004
In reply to: peacefulez
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 12:45pm
LOL Climbinggirl,

Hopefully, if things go well...I can eventually upgrade to the naughtier dice.:oP