Was he being selfish?
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| Fri, 05-14-2004 - 8:42am |
Last night, my boyfriend kept talking about how horny he was and that he wanted me to go down on him. I said fine, I wasn’t really in the mood at that point, but I didn’t have a problem doing it for him. About 5 minutes into it, I was definitely in the mood. I knew my spotting wasn’t that bad that day, so I asked him if he wanted to have sex. His response? “Not now.”
I didn’t really know how to take that. He orgasmed about 5-10 minutes after that, so did he say it because he was so close? Or did he say it because the BJ felt good and he didn’t want to switch gears? I felt slighted, like his needs were more important than mine.
I asked him about it this morning, and he said he didn’t know that my spotting was light. He thought I was joking when I asked him. Huh?? Why would I ask then?? I’m guessing that was his lame excuse for saying, “yeah, it WAS all about me last night.”
Thoughts?

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I don't mind when I'm giving and he's receiving...but it's just that sex is not an every day occurence for us because of my issue. That being said, I like to make the most of the time when I'm all clear or lighly spotting. But instead of having sex last night, he just wanted it to be about him (which it was the last few times).
Edited 5/14/2004 12:05 pm ET ET by free_to_choose
Hello,
Personally.. I would have been ticked off if i wouldve gotten that kind of response!!
Thankfully her bf does seem to at least want intercourse during her light days, which is most of the time. She can also bathe and insert a tampon for oral, and then he can also use his fingers. The thing is, if he has a true aversion to blood, where exactly does that leave her?
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