Squirting during orgasm????

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Registered: 04-30-2004
Squirting during orgasm????
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Fri, 05-14-2004 - 1:40pm
This question is for the women who do or have had this happen to them before,But frist let me tell you about what had happened.On last night me and my wife was makinglove and after we had stopped because I couldn't stay erected,But what we did doand what she done to me felt REALLY good.So I precieded to get up and go to the bathroom and while I was in the bathroom I all of a sudden herd nioses coming from her,and she started saying things like WOW,the D word, and I can't believe I did that (our bedroom is just across the hallway) I can't believe I did that.Did what I asked?I am soaked and under me is too,It is so embarrasing she said.I then told her that for not to feel embarrased because do you remember me telling you that there are some women that this happens to when they have an orgasm,because it happened to a woman whom I dated before and I didn't know it until she explained to me about what she had did.Now my question.

What can I say or do to my wife so she can stop felling embarrased about her squirting fliud when she have an orgasm? She enjoys what goes on,But feels embarrased about it happening to her.I told her how much I love seeing her do that and it really turns me on.She still say it's embarrasing.What can I say to her or do? PLEASE!! HELP

Thanks,



Howiet

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 6:45pm

Hi Howiet


I think that education is the key.

CL-Yasmin1967

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the courage to change the things I

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 6:47pm
It's not called squirting, it's called Female Ejaculation, and it's not an orgasm, and can happen separately from an orgasm.

You're right, it's nothing to be embarassed about. She probably thinks she urinated, and it's NOT urine, it's ejaculate, just like a man. Men's is less, and thicker, women's is more, and thinner. I do it all the time, and it doesn't embarass me, but I HATE the mess it makes of the bed, so I put waterproof pads on the bed.

Have her read all about it at www.the-clitoris.com.

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 9:36pm
hi howiet...the thing that stuck out at me is...if your wife was sooo embarrassed why did she announce it to you?...i would imagine if i was embarrassed i don't see that i would call to my husband from the other room with exclamations of "wow!" and such...i feel it would be more normal for an embarrassed person to try to hide their "accident", as in discretely lay a towel down under herself and maybe call her doctor if she truly believed she had reason to truly believe she had need to feel "embarrassed" for being soaked from sexual arousal and pleasure...do you think maybe she pretended to be embarrassed because she liked your positive reaction and wanted to "fish" for more positive compliments, as in your commenting you "love" when she does that and it "really turns you on"?....it just doesn't add up that a genuinely embarrassed person would announce their "accident".

just my observation.

honey

    

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 11:09am
I agree with honeynvinegar2003. She may be fishing for more communication of some sort.