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| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
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Throw a woman and intercourse into the mix and general opinion is that the longer we last the better. Practically the woman usually takes much longer too, needing a longer warmup period.
In your case, you orgasm quickly so that 'allows' your husband to orgasm fast too. I bet that if it took you 20 minutes of intercourse to orgasm your husband would be taking longer too.
My partner and I are a bit different. She can orgasm within a couple of minutes of intercourse but it's me that takes longer (depending on frequency and mood of course). I usually last 10 minutes or so and luckily by them she's had a couple of orgasms and isn't bored with the whole thing :-)
I think it's more about satisfaction for both partners. If both are happy with short duration intercourse then what's the problem? It's not premature ejeculation if the orgasms and sex are over done with even if it all only lasted 3 minutes.
Premature ejeculation should be measured on partner satisfaction scale rather than a time scale.
so my point is some men may learn to stall orgasm during intercourse if they realize their partner wants long sessions....my husband truly could never learn to prolong intercourse and so i realize not all men can do this.
honey
That's about the length of time my husband will last during intercourse and I don't consider it too soon as long
I'm not sure if other women share her "fondness" for their partner's semen, but she has often expressed her desire to have as much semen I can muster end up inside her. (Can someone explain this?)
Anyway, I digress. I've often told my wife I dislike quickies and whether I like it or not, I can't last as long as I want if I hadn't gotten off previously that day. In comes something we like to call, "the bunny".
The bunny is when she and I get busy and I go ahead and climax whenever my body wants to. (In other words we do it like bunnies). Being 39, my refractory period is much longer than when I was 20 (back then I had no refractory period...sigh). Anyway, we either stay busy after I climax or get on with the rest of the day with the notion that she will be tucking me in again.
This is when it's fun for me. We call this the perma-hard phase, depending on how much time's elapsed since my climax. If it's within 1-3 hours, I can last indefinitely. It's kinda scary sometimes, in a good way, because try as I might, I will not be able to orgasm. We basically keep going and going until she says stop. Her record is about 10 or so orgasms in the perma-hard phase. Typically she gets off about three or four times.
The only thing I'd want to change is my refractory period.
Muttley
P.S. Just so I don't come across as an uber-sex god, I will admit that if I rush things after my first one, I end up totally frustrated because it never gets hard again, and if it does, is pitifully weak and temperamental.
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Hello yasmin!
I agree with your post!
Leticia
Robin
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
2-My wife takes 20-30 minutes to get "warmed up." For that reason, I give her oral sex and clitoial stimulation. BEFORE having sexual intercoure, I insure my wife is satisfied. I can last 30 seconds to 5 minutes until ejaculation.
Have a good sexual day, mac
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