Husband ejaculates so much...

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Registered: 05-15-2004
Husband ejaculates so much...
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Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:56pm
I'm recently married to my wonderful husband and our married life has been great. However, I feel like our sex life suffers somewhat. The problem is just that when my husband cums there is sooo much. This is the situation if we have even gone a day or more without having sex. It creates a problem because we never have spontaneous sex anymore, because we always have to put towels down on the bed or the floor and it kinda kills the mood. I feel bad because I have even had him wear a condom before when I have done oral sex or a handjob on him.

Is this a strange thing? I have never experienced this situation with a past boyfriend. When we have sex in the shower it's great, but this is not practical to always have to do it in the shower! I just fell bad because I know the problem is a lot due to me.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 5:47pm

I don't think it's a strange thing but I don't know what you mean by

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Sat, 05-15-2004 - 9:19pm

I think you need to get over it.

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Sun, 05-16-2004 - 1:31am
You've got me curious now. How much does he cum? A teaspoon? A dessertspoon? A tablespoon? A milk bottle full? :-)

We keep a towel close to the bed to clean up and mess or to deal with the 'spillage' afterwards. Sex is a messy business. No-one said it was going to be otherwise. Have you considered that it might be you contributing to the mess too? Maybe you lubricate copiously or even ejeculate yourself? That would account for anything over the 5-10ml of normal ejeculate volume.

I think that you should just try to relax and not worry about the 'mess'. It's probably exactly the same amount of mess that everyone else has to deal with.

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 9:45am
1-"I just fell bad because I know the problem is a lot due to me."

IMO, I don't see how it is your "problem." You are concerned; but, it is his BODY. He might want to masturbate more often.

2-You might mention seeing a urologist.

3-Near your bed, you can keep a condom and towel. Then, you 2 can figure which method to catch the ejaculate.

Good luck, and keep us informed. mac

 

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Sun, 05-16-2004 - 11:45am
I may be biased because the more volume a guy has when he comes, I like it a lot better. I would look at it this way, if he starts having less, that means he is probably not as excited anymore, and that is far from what you want, I think!

I think you should just keep a towel or something if the mess bothers you, its no big deal in my opinion!

Melanie

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Sun, 05-16-2004 - 1:58pm
I could be wrong, but I don't believe less means he is less excited.
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Sun, 05-16-2004 - 3:16pm
Like everyone said, sex is messy. I have a similar situation in that I tend to have large amounts of seman, probably about about 2-3 times the normal. And my wife ejactulates alot when she orgasims so between us we make a hugh mess...and we both love every bit of it!!! We have no problem stopping a spontanous moment to quickly get a towel. Also can I point out that there are other advantages...for example when I give my wife a facial which she asks for once in a while I cum enough that she can also rub a lot of it on her breasts which she says is a big turn on for her. And when we have anal she likes it when I pull out and come on her tush, then rub it all over with my hand. So feel free to use this to your advantage!