i need sex!!!1

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Registered: 05-15-2004
i need sex!!!1
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Sat, 05-15-2004 - 3:40pm
I do not have a boyfriend, i was never married, and yet i have the need to have sex constantly! What can i do??

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Registered: 05-15-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 3:44pm
I understand your situation - I got divorced last summer and I haven't had sex in over a year. It gets really tough sometimes. I lot of times I want to jump into a relationship really quickly just for sex reasons, but I know that's wrong and it's also not very smart, because that's getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
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Registered: 10-30-2003
In reply to: imonty257
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 6:17pm

Do you just want sex?

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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Sat, 05-15-2004 - 9:31pm
I agree with Yasmin, if you just want sex, you can pick a guy up anywhere but that's very risky business.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: imonty257
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 1:07am
Welcome to the Hell on Earth that teenage boys live in. ;-)

One, go to a bar, pick up a good looking guy and have safe sex.

Two, get out and get some hobbies and start meeting guys, have a relationship and have sex inside the relationship.

Three, masturbate.

What's the real deal? You must know that you have these three options already? Or are you looking for a way of reducing your sex drive without having sex?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imonty257
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 6:18pm
Do you just have an aversion to the idea of a relationship where sex will be available or is there some other reason why you haven't pursued one?

The other solutions for your predicament though are obvious...masturbation. And the other is to have safe sex with someone you trust.

The desire for sex is normal for most healthy individuals, however, if your "need" is becoming overwhelming, then counseling might be in order.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 2:47pm
Go to a bar, say I want sex as loud as you can, then get out of the way. Men will line up for you. LOL
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 2:53pm
hee-hee! Funny, jeep. Can you imagine?
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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:06pm
I can. Been there done that. I personally walked into a bar and said that. LOL. Three women headed my way. LOL I think they just wanted to slap me, but I never stuck around long enough to find out. But I have seen a woman do the same thing, and yes, a line formed very quickly. LOL
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:16pm
Really? How funny! And scary! I could see a woman going up to a particular man she found attractive and whispering that to him (I mean, I wouldn't), but the whole bar? SCARY! Soooo ... did you get laid that night, jeep?
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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: imonty257
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:22pm
No. I had done it on a dare. LOL So did she, but it worked out for her. The people who headed my way though we not the type I would have taken home anyway. YUKES.

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