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Sustain lust?
| Sun, 05-16-2004 - 11:50am |
After reading many of the responses regarding average duration of intercourse, I was curious as to what your preferred method is. With clitoral stimulation and intercourse, I can probably orgasm in less than five minutes and my DH could also, even without foreplay, but we enjoy the feeling of lust, so we make it linger whenever possible. I guess my question(after reading some of the responses), is do you enjoy quickies more than sustained lust, and if you had your choice to forego foreplay all together would you? I might have read too much into some of the responses, but that was my feel anyhow. Is the quicker the better orgasm the ultimate goal?

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Not for me, I rather a long love making session to a quicky.
I don't know if anyone else ever gets this feeling, but so often it's as though, even though we're not as nervous and we've had a lot more practice, we're being so intimate for the very first time: there are so many new feelings and sensations to experience that you have to go slowly to savour every moment. And I find it amazing when we first get completely undressed, my DBF just wants to hold me really tightly but very still for a few minutes because he finds it all so overwhelming. Personally I'd rather pause every now and then amidst being very passionate to enjoy the really gentle, tender moments of being completely in love and think it;s a great way to sustain desire.
taoist
CL-Yasmin1967
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I take longer than 2-3 minutes to orgasm, so it's an understanding, with us, that a quickie is basically for my DH. I enjoy the closeness and stimulation, of course, and it's better than nothing, however, it's never been our first choice for mutual pleasure.
Quicker has never been better for me, even through masturbation.
We generally devote an hour or more to hugging, kissing, manual and oral for her, then intercourse with some more manual, oral or play with her toys afterwords. DW will often cum seven, eight times, or more (I'm about to become a Taoist, but for now I'm generally only good for one orgasm a day).
However, in the early morning or when we're rushed for time, a twenty minute quicky can be a fun change of pace for both of us. I just love to wake up with DW in my arms, and rubbing her body...she seems to like it too. When I get out of bed before her, she'll call me back when she wakes up.
Edited 5/17/2004 1:58 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
If that's the definition of a quickie then we never do quickies.
Its more fun if DW has at least one orgasm through manual or oral before I enter her. That way she generally has another climax during intercourse, making it more enjoyable for both of us.
honey
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