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| Mon, 05-17-2004 - 12:50am |
hello i must first say that this is an incredible site, its got loads of information and really does help people
keep up the good work pples!
keep up the good work pples!
rite, i'm 20 and am new to the whole lovemaking thing. i love me guy and love bedding up with him but like the many other people here im unable to reach the big o. i was wondering if this is just due to the fact that i'm still quite inexperienced at it all, and if these things just come with time? i was told by a good freind that it gets better with time but hmmm. could it also be a mental thing? how many people out there are prone to self sabotaging their own plesure?
neways
preciate any answers i get
thanx

But, in the meantime, orgasms are NOT necessary to enjoy sex, they're the reward for learning HOW to enjoy sex. Orgasms don't make sex good, good sex makes orgasms happen.
Some women NEVER learn how to have them, but they still enjoy sex!
And yes, you will sabotage yourself if all you do is worry about it. It will happen when you learn how to have them, and allow them to happen.
Check out www.the-clitoris.com to learn more about your body.
i have alredy checked out the site. just needed some reasurance about the whole saga.
thanx
Well its soo weird because i'm also 20 years old and new to these forums....I am in the situation u are in....i can definitely identify I've been going crazy getting as much info as possible...cuz i love my boyfriend and love having sex with him but i really want to finally have an orgasm when we have sex...i guess it could be that I dont have much experience but you can definitely identufy with me when i say that I want this to all go away and start enjoying the sex to the fullest...well if u get any more tips or find out what works..please leave messages here or email me at anjoev@verizon.net.....hope everything works out...thanxs
Every girl is different. I hope you eventually can have an O during regular sex (me too!) but for now try oral, it might just get you started.