Sexy Black

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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:17am
Just wondring is balck females and males are as i have heard that they are very hot and they are giving great sex.any idea???
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In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 8:19am
I honestly don't believe race has anything to do with being hot or having great sex.
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In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 9:16am
Better question:

Just WHERE did you hear THAT from?? LOL!!! I'm Black, but don't let my wife's bias fool ya either, right? ;)

Since this IS a message board focused on the "two cents" of issues, then I'm inclined to say I'd rather focus on the relationship aspects before any of the physical ones.

If you really really really don't mind me asking though, as you wrote this question, what was it about this curiosity did you think was going to help you in any way? No opinion on my end or anything, I'm just curious about your interest in this, no harm.

 

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In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 12:20pm
Tala, you ask some of the strangest questions. Sexiness, as well as beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. I don't see how skin color would make any difference in your abilities as a lover though, that comes from inside.
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In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 3:12pm
I've only heard that black men have huge ones! But I'm sure that is just a myth, still I do think about that and wonder (just for fun). Never heard anything about black women being hot in bed. I think when you are with the right person for you, that is when it's hot, no matter what race or color you are.
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:14pm
Just had to chime in before goin back to work.

"I've only heard that black men have huge ones! But I'm sure that is just a myth, still I do think about that and wonder (just for fun)."

Well, ALL races have huge ones, breasts & penises & fingers & feet & noses & you name it. Goes straight across the board for each race, AND, that also (needless to say) includes all races having 'small' ones. So you probably won't get much fun wondering if things exists for one group when the fact is they still exist for all groups anyway. Simply depends on which woman or man you happen to find NO MATTER what the race, right? ;)

"Never heard anything about black women being hot in bed. I think when you are with the right person for you, that is when it's hot, no matter what race or color you are."

I also agree with your direction towards everyone's main point on this: NOBODY will find any significant differences in any one group to another that'll make a sexual difference. Heck, I'm having trouble finding ANYone else on this particular message board thats willing to admit to being part of an interracial relationship other than me & the Mrs. for that matter. At least I know we're more 'tangible' proof that race really makes no difference. YES Black women are hot in bed, but so are others as well.

 

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In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:29pm

<> Yes, you are right.

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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:49pm
Para, I've(formerly leticiaf) said before that I myself am bi-racial(white and mexican although I look 100% Mexican) and my husband is white. We have gotten the occasional odd looks, but only when we lived in the South. I think it's so common now, I don't think it's a real big deal. Our kids look white though, go figure LOL. You and the Mrs. are interracial? What is she?

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Registered: 10-10-2003
In reply to: tala2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 6:45pm
I don't see any reason whatsoever to worry about any interracial thing or anything else. I'm very good friends with an interracial couple (white M, af-am W) and they're absolutely hysterical ("I only dated him because he was a honky ...") and if anything it seems extremely healthy to be to just be -normal- about things ... meaning, it's not something to hushedly sweep under the carpet -- and it's ok to talk about -- and it just is. There's just not one thing even the tiniest bit wierd about it. She's also screamingly beautiful and screamingly smart, and I'm screamingly glad to know 'em.
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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 4:58pm
"Para, I've(formerly leticiaf) said before that I myself am bi-racial(white and mexican although I look 100% Mexican) and my husband is white."

Yes, that's right, I think I'm beginning to really remember you now. Yep. :)

Didn't intend for this string to veer off course though. I'm not really hooked on IR discussion as much as I am just to re-stress that there's no proof of significant difference among the races sexually.

So when anyone "hears" (whatever that means, huh? lol) that one race is this or that another is that--speaking sexually--don't believe it, we're all adult enough to not fall for or even show interest in these myths anymore.


Edited 5/19/2004 5:01 pm ET ET by para1995

 

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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: tala2004
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 6:08pm
It's funny that we(society) seem to pick and choose what stereotypes we believe. I came from a somewhat mixed family(white, mexican, and black) so I never really gave much thought to stereotypes as far as race goes. I don't really have any input on whether ornot black men are good in bed since I have never been with one, but if it's OK with DH you can send D'Angelo my way and I can let you all know ROFL.

Leticia