First timer

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Registered: 11-29-2003
First timer
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 9:35pm
My boyfriend and I recently just engaged in sex. It was both of our first times. He got checked out a few months ago and is STD free. I however haven't been checked, is there a chance that I could have something? The only thing I've done previous to this was been fingered by two other persons. He pre-ejaculated twice, both time using condoms. After the first he took the condom off and wiped himself down. After a little while we tried again and it happened again. I'm sure he wiped himself down but what if there was a little residue that came off on me as I was on him or something...could that cause pregnancy? I've been driving myself crazy, and its too early to get a test done, because it happened only 4 days ago. I'm also not on birth control. My mom really likes my boyfriend and thinks that he would never do anything like this to her baby, which makes it terribly hard to ask her to take me to the doctors to get on birth control and I dont want to sneak behind her back. Any advice?
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: megz32xo
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 10:01pm

You don't need your mom to get on birth control.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: megz32xo
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 9:59am
First of all, I would have to suggest highly that you talk to your mom. Lay it out there. She wont take it as hard as you seem to think. She may even be supportive. You never know till you do it. Moms have always had the highest regard for there kids, the most understanding, the been the first to love without question. If you have issues, talk to your mom. She may be mad about it at first, but looking back, I wish I had talked to my mom a lot more about the stuff I was doing, had done, or wanted to do. Would have saved me years of problems, worries, concerns, and scares.