Penis and G Spot: Getting cosy together.

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Penis and G Spot: Getting cosy together.
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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 3:04am
Some of the guys were talking about hitting the G spot with their penises in one of the discussions below. I was wondering what, if anything, the women had anything to say about it.

Do you like your g-spot stimulated? Do you specifically ask your partner to stimulate it or is it something that he does or that happens during sex without you having to ask?

Is G Spot stimulation during intercourse that much of a deal anyway?

During intercourse, is getting his penis to stimulate your G spot something that you regularly, conciously try to do?



Do you use any positions so that he hits the spot?

Do you use them specifically so that it stimulates the g-spot, or is it just because they feel good in general?

Have you ever noticed if a curved penis or something like a Prince Albert piercing makes a difference?

Thanks. I was just curious. While my partner and I make good use of the g-spot during oral sex, it's never really been something that we, umm, specifically aim for (or even think about) during intercourse.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 10:12am
My SO loves clitoral orgasms, but G-Spot ones make her explode, so I definately use positions to hit it, and rub it well. During Oral I will massage it a little, but not nearly like I do with my penis during entercourse. She had said that G-Spot orgasms are full body, where as Clitoral are more centralized for her. She used the word deeper to discribe the feeling as well. When we have sex, my goal is to please her, so no matter what I do, if I am not pleasing her, I will not have a powerful and satisfying orgasm. But, when I do please her, and she makes it apparent, my orgasms are phenominal. So it pays for me to learn to please her in new ways. One of which is especially usefull. A small pillow under the butt, me on my haunches and entering her while sitting up. It causes my penis to enter her at such an angle that G-spot stimulation is pretty much assured, and she rocks her way to extacy. I really enjoy it too, as the angle creates the right pressure for me to build to climax.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 1:07pm
Yes, I enjoy having my g-spot stimulated, but it's more of a "passing glance" during intercourse, since it's not usual that my DH will agree to thrust so shallowly the whole time! LOL!

No, it's not that big a deal for me personally, it's just an enhancement, I still need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

No, we tend not to focus on the g-spot the whole time because it's reached with shallow thrusting and that's not particularly satisfying for either of us.

I notice that doggy seems to hit the spot more effectively or modified missionary where my DH rides a little higher. But we do those positions just because they feel good to both of us, not necessarily to hit my g-spot.

Never experienced a partner who had a Prince Albert or very curved penis, although my DH's curves up ever so slightly when fully erect. Nothing out of the ordinary though.

I think whatever provides the most mutual pleasure tends to become routine for most couples and like you and your wife, we use manual stimulation for g-spot enhancement during cunnilingus but tend not to focus on any one area during intercourse.

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Registered: 05-22-2003
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 2:59pm
g-spot stimuli is worth it to me.

sometimes it isn't about the angle. sometimes i have him press gently right above my pubic bone, which causes the g-spot to rub agains his penis during sex. or sometimes he goes really deep and rocks back & forth while on top & my legs are bent back. that seems to hit it sometimes.

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 3:11pm
well at least you people can have an orgasam during sex.
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Registered: 01-08-2003
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 4:13pm
I will tilt my pelvis so that his penis hits my g-spot during intercourse. His penis rubbing over my g-spot feels good but it doesn't have to be the tip of his penis, it can be the shaft. In addition, it doesn't have to be a constant rubbing. His penis occasionally stroking across my g-spot can trigger an orgasm as well as consistent rubbing. I get stronger orgasms from his contact with my g-spot either manually or through intercourse than I do from clitoral stimulation. Although let me assure you that all orgasms are welcomed and enjoyed no matter their initiation, lol.

Robin

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Registered: 01-26-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 5:27pm
I do like to have my g-spot stimulated during intercourse. However, I also like deep penetration. Those two things don't always go together. Anyway, my husbands penis is very long and we have to be kind of careful with shallow g-spot stimulation since we have on occasion caused him to bend his penis painfully if he is thrusting shallowly and rapidly. That being said, if we are careful it feels great! I personally like to start off with slow, shallow g-spot stimulation then move into the deeper stuff later.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Wed, 05-26-2004 - 5:34pm
I dont think that it is something that my DH and I conicously(sp) do...if he hits me there well then that is GREAT but if not hell I dont mind.

Christi

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